ABOUT i-CONNECT
Schools are ideal places for young people to foster socially connected relationships and prevent students feeling rejected and becoming socially isolated. Moreover, when students feel connected to school they are more likely to have enhanced mental and physical health and social and emotional well-being, higher academic achievement and be less likely to indulge in substance use and delinquent behaviour.
Here are some ways you can ensure your school is doing its part in promoting healthy social relationships for all students:
Students need to be connected to a teacher, principal, counsellor, or other school personal. Encourage school staff members to liaise with colleagues if they observe students on the peripheries. Connecting students with a caring adult helps build confidence, which increases socialization with peers.
Ensure that the school provides an environment where students feel safe talking to an adult, whether it's about their loneliness or a classmate who may be lonely.
Provide weekly lunch bunch sessions around various topics (i.e., upcoming holidays, volunteer activities, and interesting articles) where students who may usually sit alone can socialize in a structured environment and build new friendships.
Allow students to create after school clubs that meet their interests. Students are more likely to connect with their peers if they have common interests.
This is an excellent resource, especially for new students. In this instance new students are matched with other student volunteers, who show them around the school and help them get to know other students.
When parents feel welcomed at school they are more likely to reach out for support. If you have a student that you know is experiencing loneliness the parents can help provide insight into the child's strengths and talents.
Work with staff to help students overcome negative self-talk. Create a daily quote board with a new positive quote every day.